It’s easy to be jealous, just as it is said in “east evil and West poison”: anyone can become vicious, as long as you have tried what is called jealousy.
It’s useless to say more.
They have their own slow-release effect.
07 vulgar and vulgar words, don’t say hurtful words, like a thorn inserted into the heart, there will still be a hole after pulling it out.
It’s just right.
Concise and comprehensive is the realm; Eloquent, why not charming? Just say the right words to the right person at the right time, on the right occasion.
To live a lifetime is to stand in the world with dignity.
“Speaking wounds are all secret wounds.
These three can cultivate morality and harm far away!” the mouth is an axe to hurt people, and the word is a tongue cutting knife.
A momentary desire to talk not only hurts others, but also plunges oneself into disputes.
You don’t have to say everything you know, but leave some virtue.
As Zhang Ying said: thousands of miles of books are only for the wall.
Those who expose people’s scars are hated by others and harm others and themselves.
Everyone has dignity and good face.
“People live a face, trees live a skin”.
There is also a very important point: words should not be lightly said and promises should not be lightly made.
Only laughing at others all day means that you have no vision of development and are only limited to your own one-third of an acre, so it is difficult to see a broader future.
Mozi said, “toads and mosquitoes keep barking day and night, making their mouths dry, but who will listen to them? Look at the rooster again, the dawn crows on time, the world vibrates, and people get up early.” “if the wife doesn’t speak, the word must be right.” Confucius meant that a person either doesn’t speak or speaks to the point as soon as he opens his mouth.
If you offend others, don’t say the old saying.
Don’t say worthless nonsense.
Don’t be impatient with loneliness and temptation.
If no one wakes them up, they will not know until they die.” some wounding words may relieve temporary anger, but they are like a blunt knife, leaving scars on each other’s heart.
Zuo Zongtang had the problem of “scholars like to speak big”.
If you look down on people, let alone between people, there is no distinction between high and low.
Don’t attack people’s weaknesses and expose people’s scars.
Over the years, no matter how good a relationship is, it will be corroded, resulting in the disintegration of the relationship.
Why don’t you let him three feet! Don’t say the following offending words.
People who are really knowledgeable and self-restraint do not have to flaunt themselves.
If you always care about it, it’s easy to offend people.
After making contributions, he talked about his experience of the western expedition.
Humility is sometimes good.
When someone came to him for business, whether it was business or private, Zuo Zongtang could turn things around to the western expedition in a few words, leaving the other party helpless.
But having a peaceful heart is very valuable.
Seeing that Zhang San had made a fortune, he said that others were ill gotten gains; Seeing Li Si’s promotion, he said that he was in a superior position.
In the late Qing Dynasty, Zuo Zongtang conquered Xinjiang and made great achievements.
Being gentle to others is also kindness to ourselves.
Whether a person is worth making friends or not can be seen from his conversation style most of the time.
Ziqin asked the teacher Mozi whether it was good to talk more.
Therefore, in this life, people should never look at people through the door, always be humble, maintain respect for everyone, and accumulate blessings for themselves.
Zuo Zongtang is a capable person, and the credit he boasts is really true.
Talk less bluntly, talk less nonsense, complain less, gossip less, crazy less.
Jianzhong001 as the saying goes, “speaking shows character, and dealing with the world shows Eq.” whether in interpersonal communication or daily life, the way of speaking is actually a person’s way of dealing with the world.
Endure the wind and waves for a while, and take a step back.
Don’t block others’ mouths with a provocative tone.
The brave thing is to listen with a smile, not to say bad words.
A mountain is higher than a mountain, and a sea is wider than a sea.
If you flaunt your own words, don’t say that others praise, it’s public praise, and self flaunting is boasting.
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He is still criticized by others, so we’d better not say what we flaunt ourselves.
In life, less aggressive, more understanding and tolerance.
People who think they are superior and look down on others are actually the stupidest people.
Other people’s right and wrong, other people’s long and short, have nothing to do with you.
Don’t say anything of no value.
“Heaven does not speak of self-improvement, and the earth does not speak of self thickness”.
Therefore, in life, don’t expose people’s shortcomings and talk about people’s privacy.
Over time, his reputation is bound to plummet.
I didn’t understand until middle age that there are seven kinds of words rotten in my stomach, otherwise there will be endless trouble! 01 don’t talk about Caigen Tan if you expose people’s shortcomings: “don’t blame people for their minor mistakes, don’t expose people’s private affairs, and don’t read people’s old evils.
Some words would rather rot in your stomach than say it.
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Hemingway said that it took us two years to learn to speak, but it took us a lifetime to learn to shut up.
It is not a wise move.
Where there are people is the Jianghu.
In the Jianghu, there are always disturbances and bumps.
The ancients said, “if you often talk about right and wrong, it must be wrong.” if you often gossip about others, you will bring trouble to yourself.